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Posted by umar khan on October 19, 2024 at 11:24am 0 Comments 0 Likes
These patterns are somehow Yantra Manifestation Review created in childhood. This could be learned behaviors from perfectionistic or overly demanding parents. As a child, you may have come to believe that you could only be loved for accomplishment. Maybe you were reared in a regimented, driven type style. Look into your childhood and see how these patterns came to run your life.
Realize that you are not your accomplishments. If you've spent your whole life accomplishing, there is no doubt that your identity is extremely tied into achievements. Do some serious soul searching as to your motivations about everything you are working to achieve. The main thing to explore is to separate those things you are achieving to impress others from those things you are achieving to please yourself. This is the crux of the work. The key is to stop living your life to please others. Start making choices that please you.
This sounds simple, but if you've spent a lifetime pleasing others, these changes can be very wrenching. Others may still have enough of a hold on you to be disappointed in you or enough of a hold on you for you to fear or imagine their disappointment in you.
Write down all the efforts you are currently working on achieving. Take a serious look at each one. Pay special attention to the percentage of pleasing myself and pleasing others in each one of these.
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