When you can control the psychology of a girl, it means that control of her emotions and thoughts, that she will sooner or later fall in love with you.

In the process of chasing girls, there is a high-level skills: "cold and close" rule, boys use a good, you can easily control the psychology of girls.

In real life, many boys like to use the "cold and close" rule, but basically use the wrong, if you also think that the so-called "cold and close" is a moment to ignore the girl, and a moment to get close to the girl, it is wrong.

The real "cold and close" rule of use, much more than that.

What is "cold": is in the time to keep a distance from the girl, keep the appropriate distance.

The purpose of the girl "cold": is to maintain a healthy development of the relationship, to ensure that it does not take a detour.

Some boys from the beginning of the girl, constantly pleasing girls, has been trying to "backward" to the girl, this does not know how to keep the distance, is in the destruction of the relationship.

What is "near": the girl "near", and not to please the girl, but with a "purposeful" approach, and then, to promote the development of feelings.

So, "cold and close" law is the role of: through the "cold" to ensure that feelings do not take a detour, and then, and then through the "close" to constantly promote the development of feelings.

Understand the principle, next, I will explain the operation skills from different stages of chasing girls.

If you like a girl in the "friends stage", how to do "cold and close"?

"Cold": since the two people are friends, the boy should not deliberately to the girl good, not to deliberately to interact with the girl, all interactive interactions need to be "rationalized".

In the "friends stage", keep not to reveal the sense of need is to keep the relationship from taking a detour, you know, girls have "reserved psychology", once the girl found that the boy has a sense of need for her, she will begin to avoid, the relationship began to take a detour.

"Near": in the "friends stage", the boy "near" the girl's purpose is to find common ground between the two people, in order to increase the sense of connection between the two people, so that both sides can have more "reasonable" interaction.

The search for "similarities" can be found in interests, experiences, emotions, in the "friends stage", boys interact with girls on the main thing to do.

In addition, in order to the interaction between the two people "reasonableness", boys need to find some "steps" for girls, for example, invite girls can use "vague invitation", this technique itself is a "step".