The most embarrassing thing Gan Chai Rie Huo encountered was that Ding Ding suddenly softened and couldn't get hard.
Recently, some Ding friends in the group and private messages have asked this question, which reminds Xiaoding of the same situation of a previous buddy:
This buddy was dating his girlfriend. When he was getting better, Tintin suddenly became soft. At first, his girlfriend was caressing patiently. The buddy was sweating profusely, but the little brother was still soft and patience despite the fiddling. Finally, both of them lost their patience. The girlfriend expressed the hope that the disappointment will be as great as she is, and a good sex will break up.

In fact, "sudden weakness, hard to get up" has appeared in many male compatriots. Doing and doing it becomes softer, and it is more disappointing and at a loss than if it didn't become hard at the beginning.
Some Ding friends searched for the definition of erectile dysfunction (ED) on Baidu. Ding Ding’s inability to get an erection or unable to maintain sufficient erection time to complete a normal sex life is called erectile dysfunction.
When the symptoms are consistent, I worry about suspecting that I have impotence. In fact, it is not so easy to get ED. The symptom usually takes more than 3 months to be possible. This matter can also be divided into different circumstances and cannot be generalized.
Ding Ding's hardness standard
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Due to different personal physiques, male compatriots also have great differences in Dingding hardness during erection. There are really standards for Dingding hardness. This standard is also used to judge whether a man has erectile dysfunction and whether he can complete sex. index.
The "Erectile Hardness Classification" (EHS) divides the hardness of Dingding into 4 levels: the first level is the worst, the penis has hyperemia, but cannot be erected or inserted (hardness is like tofu); the second level is slightly better, with slight erections , But still can’t be inserted (hardness like peeled ripe soft banana); level 3 can be inserted, but it is still not strong enough, it belongs to "Microsoft", or it is half soft and can not last (hardness as soft with skin) Banana); 4th grade is the best, full erection and very strong, and can last. Therefore, men should pay attention to the secrets of enhancing the hardness of the penis (hardness like cucumber) in daily life.
These reasons may cause weakness in the middle
01. Occasionally appear once or twice
If in your sexual experience, there has never been a half-hearted death, and suddenly come one or two times, it may be due to recent work pressure, physical fatigue or emotional instability due to certain things, excessive alcoholism before love Caused, these factors may cause weakness in the middle or even fail to be hard at the beginning.
There are also the following situations that may cause occasional weakness once or twice:
(1) Young drivers who have just started on the road and have no experience in X may experience weakness in the middle of life when they first have X life. If they are okay with their hands, they can rule out functional problems.

It’s the first time I found out that it’s different from the feelings of watching a small movie or X fantasy. I am too nervous, inexperienced, worried that the other person thinks that I am not in good shape, and I am not able to work... In fact, these situations are for novices. It's all normal. Love also needs a break-in period. More communication and foreplay are important. Kissing and caressing are indispensable. Try a position that both parties like and relax and enjoy sex.

(2) Interruption on the way
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You Ding friends should have encountered this situation. When you are doing the firewood, you are being disturbed by the phone, worried about the child, or even suddenly thinking of some annoying things, so that you can't concentrate on the X things between the two, and bite the bullet. As a result, lack of passion and easily distracted. Of course, some people say that I don't want it or I can stay hard, but some people can't, and they soften unconsciously in the middle.

(3) Unintentional love battle

After a certain amount of X experience, many people are not so curious about the matter of rolling the sheets. They are familiar with it and become commonplace. There are even many times that they don't want it for no reason, but it prevents the other party from having to do it.

Xiaoding’s suggestion is that if you really don’t want it or feel it right now, you might as well tell the other party directly, don’t force each other, express it frankly, respect each other, and fight another battle next time when your relationship is full.

02. Frequent "Falling Down"

If Ai Ai often appears to be weak or even unable to get up for more than three months, you need to pay attention to it. It may be a psychological factor or a physiological factor.

(1) Psychological factors
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Some people start to worry about impotence after experiencing a period of weakness. After that, Ai Ai pays more attention to Tintin's erection, and becomes overly anxious. The more anxious they become, the more anxious they become, and the resistance to Ai Ai. In addition to this reason, there are also some deep-seated factors, such as some people have experienced unpleasant X experiences, discordant relationships between intimate partners, lack of correct X experiences, and so on.

(2) Physiological factors (organic factors) If none of the above factors are found, before confirming that it is a physiological factor, check whether any of the drugs you usually take may cause ED symptoms, and take anti-anxiety and high blood pressure for a long time. , Anti-hormonal drugs are likely to cause ED. If not, consider seeing a doctor in a regular hospital.

In addition, excessive masturbation may also bring about a mixture of psychological and physiological, reducing frequent sexual life, moderate masturbation, appropriate rest and physical exercise.

How to improve the problem of weakness in the middle
There is occasional weakness once or twice, no need to worry too much. If work or other things are in your mind, you can't focus on the X things between two people, first solve the troubles and talk about it, otherwise it will only be exhausted and harder. Can't get up.

To create a quiet and beautiful atmosphere, two people will devote themselves to it. If it is a frequent psychological factor, timely communication between partners, or seek psychological counseling for behavioral psychotherapy, and medication when necessary.

Organic factors, in addition to good communication between partners, relieve stress, pay attention to diet and avoid alcohol, and can also be treated with medication. If the situation cannot be alleviated, Xiaoding suggests to go to a regular hospital for systematic examination and symptomatic treatment.
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