According to the stereotype, men are completely comfortable with sex toys, and girls are completely weird with even the tamest items like porn movies, and they are likely to abandon you if they find a realistic vagina sex toy! in your closet! However, we all know that stereotypes are rarely true, and if you have a guy who is a little concerned about introducing sex toys into your playtime, it can seem very limiting. Today we review some tips and techniques for a guy to overcome his fear of male sex toys!

Vibrating rings

These sex toys can be placed in condoms or used without a condom in a long-term relationship. They are a great place for guys who feel a little threatened to begin with because they are completely useless without him there. Plus, he's in full control of your in-ring experience. 

Finger vibrators

They are usually marketed as little vibrators that a lady can use anywhere (well, anywhere she has enough privacy not to get arrested!). However, they are also a great first foray into the world of sex toys for uncomfortable guys; again, he is in full control.

Remote control vibrators

Another toy that gives you total control is the remote control vibrator. You put it under your panties, find a nice, loud pub or club, and put the remote in your pocket. In this situation, the toy is barely replacing him ... he is simply working through the toy, as your personal sex god!

Toys for him!

Many sex toys are primarily designed to make it easier for a man to orgasm, or to make orgasm feel different ... so why not try one of these first? Show him that you don't feel threatened and that he will usually respond to you in the same way.

Speaking of the female body

One of the reasons men often feel replaced, inadequate, or threatened by sex toys is that they assume that female bodies respond to stimulation in the same way as the male body.

If your man is unwilling to try any of the above ideas, the most sensible starting point is to take Salt 'n Pepa's advice and "take care of the sex." Guys should know that since the male orgasm is related to reproduction, evolution has found many mysterious ways to make it happen very reliably! Girls have not been so lucky in this department ... a woman who can only have an orgasm in limited circumstances is still quite capable of passing on her genes. There is no insufficiency in either partner, just ordinary genetic differences like the tendency to have coughs and colds, the ability to tan instead of sunburn or have a fast metabolism.